Help (here is some); Hate (don't do it),

Help (page updated)
http://sandradodd.com/help.html

Two stories / examples added at the top of the (very short) page on avoiding hating things. "I hate..." doesn't lead to a good place.
http://sandradodd.com/hate.html
The links from those to their originals go to two newly-available things, too... you'll see.

photo (a link) by Janine Davies