New page on courage. (It's a new page I started in 2008, and added to this week.)
Living in moments, rather than days—a directory page
New songs added to the Small Words collection—beautiful poetry using mostly thousand-year-old words. A dozen song lyrics (and videos), some poetry and commentary
Sunday, April 10, 2016
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
Depression, its effects on unschooling, ways to avoid or lessen it
A summary of some recent-ish research on the effects of parental food control on children’s eating habits. (Jo Isaac, PhD and unschooling mom)
Ideas equivocadas sobre el Unschooling, translated from Alex Polikowsky, by Alicia González
Thursday, March 17, 2016
Two new tales of kids turning down sugar, by Sylvia Woodman, second item here:
Not new, but not previously announced. "Seeing it"—has a couple of Just Add Light posts appended now.
New page: Hatred (avoidance of), about how saying "I hate that" stunts learning
Monday, March 7, 2016
How other parenting philosophies and ideas can hinder and hamper unschooling:
A page from 2013 that was not announced, about skills children and adults might have:
New writing, by Megan Valnes, about a surprising feeling of wellbeing she experienced.
Lefthand side, near the top:
Sunday, February 28, 2016
Quotes have been added to some pages:
Marta, Sandra, Pam Sorooshian:
The page on terminology has been rearranged, and has spawned a new page, too:
The problem with "RU" (new page):Added to and rearranged "Clarity":
Wednesday, February 24, 2016
New by Karen James, third item down. Page reformatted to make it easier to read on smaller devices.
Interview from 2010, short but good. This was a backup, but that site is gone and my page is the only one.
Addition to "Phrases to Hear and Avoid" (about whether one is doing enough, near the bottom)
Friday, February 19, 2016
photo by Sukayna
New by Emily Strength, and parenting and bedtime, second or third item down here:
New by Karen James, about time, attention and energy—about patient, loving attention.
Addition of a quote from Just Add Light, to a page it had been linked to, but wasn't actually on; now 1/3 of the way down.
I'm grateful that Marta Pires saved the quote and brought it back out today, which inspired me to give it a good home.
I think I wrote it for a "Just Add Light and Stir" post in 2011. I didn't find it in the discussions.
[LATER NOTE: Page 194 of The Big Book of Unschooling—Debbie Harper found it.]
Change a moment. Change one touch, one word, one reaction. If you try to change your entire self so that next year will be better, you might become overwhelmed and discouraged and distraught.
Change one thing. Smile one sweet smile. Say one kind thing.
If that felt good, do it again. Rest. Watch. Listen. You're a parent because of your child. Your child. You should be his parent, or her parent. Not a generic parent, or a hypothetical parent. Be your child's parent in each moment that you interact with her.
Friday, February 5, 2016
New by Debbie Regan on the Priorities page; I couldn't decide whether to put it under priorities, principles or deschooling! It's all of those.
New page, Karen James on how she helps Ethan if he's bored. SO gentle.
Video on the effects of stress on one's brain and on one's children, from TED-Ed, added to the bottom of the negativity page:
Wednesday, January 20, 2016
In a discussion of learning the alphabet, and so many songs and videos having "zee" rather than "zed," Jane Clossick offered an British alternative and I have her notes and a sound file here:
I've also added two great alphabet songs by Kermit the Frog (Jim Henson), with lyrics! (This page was moved out of the reading folder, where it was never linked, so it's a little like new.)
New from Alex Polikowsky, reminder to parents, third on the left:
Two new accounts added to a page called "Learning to read on the list"
(The new stuff's at the bottom!)
Saturday, January 9, 2016
Don't let unschooling ruin your marriage
Concerns and thoughts about eating and body size
Danger of negativity (new page—will have more later)
Santa Fe, New Mexico
Tuesday, December 22, 2015
photo by Sarah Dickinson
New second item, and page name very slightly changed (from / to .html, for those who might have linked it elsewhere)
Sunday, December 13, 2015
I have added two new collection pages by unschooling moms whose writing has helped many other families:
Clare Kirkpatrick, in the U.K.
Jo Isaac, in Australia
In response to my request for assistance in November, I received photos for use in Just Add Light and Stir, from:
Sam and Jasmine Baykus
Sukayna and Ruqayya
They've all been uploaded and organized, and I've used several already in Just Add Light, beginning 8 December 2015, so over the next few months you'll see new names and imagery there. Please subscribe, if you haven't already: (upper right, under "MORE OF...")