Support, change, decisions
Addition to support, "I want my own child to do more than just survive," 3/4 of the way down:
http://sandradodd.com/support.html
and some other clean-up on that page
"Changes in Parents"—Pam Laricchia's second interview of Sandra Dodd:
http://sandradodd.com/parentschange
Newer photo of my three now-grown children next to one when they were 13-17 or so:
http://sandradodd.com/decisions
photo (a link) by Chrissy Florence